rhythm, you have to get into rhythm with your partner. For instance, i learn by watching and observing him. his mannerisms, his quirks, his habits, that way I can cope with what is second nature to him, but not to me.

In our home life, he does the laundry, I fold it, he does the dishes, I put them away, I organize, he cleans. It is a happy rhythm we are in, but we have to continue working in that manner.

I think we have to observe and watch our partner to learn, rather than expecting them to adopt to the way we want it done. It takes away our individuality, our past experiences. It denies us what is rightfully ours, ourselves. We have to nourish our own souls to understand the souls of others.

Isn't Peace truly what we want? in order for it to be in the world on a global level, doesn't it start behind your "four walls".

peace and love, XoM